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		<title>Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival &#8211; A Trip to Charleston!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dana</dc:creator>
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Named for King Charles II, Charleston was founded in 1670 at Albemarle Point, on the western bank of the Ashley River and was the first European settlement in the U.S. colonies.  Initially named Charles Towne, the settlement was later moved to its current location on the peninsula in 1680.  If you visit Charleston, make sure [...]]]></description>
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<div id="attachment_2402" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 563px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2402" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-028/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2402    " title="Lisa's Charleston pics 028" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-028.jpg" alt="" width="553" height="414" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Near the site of the original Charles Towne settlement</p></div>
<p>Named for King Charles II, Charleston was founded in 1670 at Albemarle Point, on the western bank of the Ashley River and was the first European settlement in the U.S. colonies.  Initially named Charles Towne, the settlement was later moved to its current location on the peninsula in 1680.  If you visit Charleston, make sure you plan a stop at <a href="http://www.charlestowne.org/visitus.shtml" target="_blank">the historical park at Charles Towne Landing</a>.</p>
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<h2><strong>Nature Study</strong></h2>
<p><strong>One of our favorite parts of following Charlotte Mason&#8217;s methods are beginning many of our days with Nature Study. </strong>Rather than Amber&#8217;s family going <em>out</em> to study nature, they conveniently had nature come to <em>them</em> when they found a snake in their basement!  Of course, they couldn&#8217;t let it go without studying it first&#8230; <a href="http://mommyearth.blogspot.com/2009/11/nature-study-snake.html">Nature Study &#8212; Snake!</a> posted at <a href="http://mommyearth.blogspot.com/">The Mommy Earth</a>.Barb loves the following quote about nature study from Charlotte Mason&#8217;s contemporary and friend,  Liberty H. Bailey. Barb-Harmony Art Mom presents <a href="http://handbookofnaturestudy.blogspot.com/2009/11/threads-of-nature-study.html">The Threads of Nature Study</a> posted at <a href="http://handbookofnaturestudy.blogspot.com/">Handbook of Nature Study</a>. Have you ever wanted to take a peek at other kids&#8217; nature journals?  Jennifer includes some pictures of theirs along with some glorious fall color in her article, <a href="http://livingcminca.blogspot.com/2009/11/our-tree-trip-in-utah.html">Our Tree Trip in Utah,</a> posted at <a href="http://livingcminca.blogspot.com/">Living Charlotte Mason in California</a>. Tammy presents a fascinating and informative article about an impromptu nature study that occurred recently at her house:  <a href="http://becksbounty.blogspot.com/2009/11/nature-study.html">An Exciting New Find</a>, posted at <a href="http://becksbounty.blogspot.com/">Adventures On Beck&#8217;s Bounty</a>.</p>
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<div id="attachment_2403" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 413px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2403" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-134-2/"><img class="size-full wp-image-2403  " title="Lisa's Charleston pics 134" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-134.jpg" alt="" width="403" height="538" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Reproduction of English Settlers&#39; Cabins at Charles Towne Landing</p></div>
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<h2>Handicrafts</h2>
<p><strong>Ms. Mason advocated that children learn skills and abilities that would aid them in life and aid them in being productive.  In her schools she promoted <em>handi</em>crafts, not just <em>arts and</em> crafts. </strong>Sometimes moms are at a loss for handicraft ideas to do with their sons,  so here are some manly projects gleaned from Rebecca&#8217;s experiences as a Cub Scout leader:  <a href="http://refincher.wordpress.com/2009/08/03/handicrafts-for-boys/">Handicrafts for Boys</a> posted at <a href="http://refincher.wordpress.com/">Little Homeschool on the Prairie</a>.</p>
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<div id="attachment_2404" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 534px"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2404" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-166-2/"><img class="size-large wp-image-2404   " title="Lisa's Charleston pics 166" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-166-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="524" height="393" /></a><p class="wp-caption-text">Charleston in the spring</p></div>
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<h2>The Habit of Thinking</h2>
<p><strong>Children do not automatically do what is right &#8211; good habits must be painstakingly, regularly, consistently trained. </strong>Christin offers us a practical examples of how to do that in her insightful article,  <a href="http://christin-journeyofdiscovery.blogspot.com/2009/11/habit-of-thinking.html">The Habit of Thinking</a> posted at <a href="http://christin-journeyofdiscovery.blogspot.com/">Journey of Discovery</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2413" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-038-2/"><img class="size-large wp-image-2413 aligncenter" title="Lisa's Charleston pics 038" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-038-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="377" height="502" /></a></p>
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<p>Open in 2005, the Arthur Ravenel Bridge from Charleston to Mt. Pleasant has the longest single cable-stay bridge in North America.</p>
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<h2><strong>Forming a Relationship</strong></h2>
<p><strong>It is natural that children, when exposed to great ideas from excellent living books, develop a relationship with what they are learning. </strong>Keri presents <a href="http://sunnyscholars.blogspot.com/2009/11/forming-relationship.html">Forming a Relationship</a> posted at <a href="http://sunnyscholars.blogspot.com/">Sunny Scholars</a>.  Barb&#8217;s children certainly are forming a relationship with the characters as they study <em>Les Miserables</em>.  Read this excellent reflective piece on their literature study :  <a href="http://harmonyartmom.blogspot.com/2009/11/appreciative-look-or-comment.html">&#8220;An Appreciative Look or Comment&#8221;</a> posted at <a href="http://harmonyartmom.blogspot.com/">Harmony Art Mom</a>.  Although much broader than just this topic suggests, Bethany LeBedz presents <a href="http://momishome2.blogspot.com/2009/07/tutors-private-coaching-session.html">Confessions of an Organized Homeschool Mom: The Tutor&#8217;s Private Coaching Session</a> describing her wonderfully helpful magazines for rounding out a Charlotte Mason curriclum, posted at <a href="http://momishome2.blogspot.com/">Confessions of an Organized Homeschool Mom</a>.</p>
<p>Although Phyllis is just beginning her homeschooling years, she shares with us &#8216;what the beginning of a Charlotte Mason education looks like&#8217; in her home as she shares <a href="http://fylliska.blogspot.com/2009/11/week-in-our-school.html">A week in our school</a> posted at <a href="http://fylliska.blogspot.com/">Hunsucker&#8217;s Home</a> from the Ukraine.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2407" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-085-2/"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2407" title="Lisa's Charleston pics 085" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-085-1024x768.jpg" alt="" width="574" height="430" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">These often photographed colorful row of houses on East Bay Street are affectionately known as &#8216;Rainbow Row.&#8217;  Although there are several explanations for these bright colors, many feel they originated from the colonial Caribbean, a regular port of call on trade voyages to Charleston.</p>
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<h2>Copy Work</h2>
<p><strong>One of the basic tenets of a Charlotte Mason education is copy work. </strong>Cyndi Kinney posts an informative and helpful article on the benefits of copy work: <a href="http://www.redheadrambler.com/?p=360">Why Copywork?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.redheadrambler.com">Red Head Rambler</a>.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2408" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-087/"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2408" title="Lisa's Charleston pics 087" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-087-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="491" height="655" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">During Colonial times the pineapple began to be used in the South as a symbol for the warm and welcome hospitality frequently found here.</p>
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<h2>Picture Study</h2>
<p><strong>Like copy work, picture study is a hallmark of Ms. Mason&#8217;s education. </strong>Please <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/charlotte-mason-mondays-picture-study/">read this for an introduction to picture study</a>, and then read Brenda&#8217;s article, <a href="http://thetiethatbindsus.blogspot.com/2009/11/impressionists-for-kids.html">The Impressionists for Kids</a> posted at <a href="http://thetiethatbindsus.blogspot.com/">The Tie That Binds Us</a> for a wonderful example of putting it into practice.   If you have older children and would like to have them learn a more formal method of evaluating art, please read my article,  <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/charlotte-mason-mondays-picture-study-for-older-students/">Charlotte Mason Mondays: Picture Study for Older Students</a> posted at <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog">Epi Kardia</a>.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2409" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/lisas-charleston-pics-049-2/"><img class="aligncenter size-large wp-image-2409" title="Lisa's Charleston pics 049" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/Lisas-Charleston-pics-049-768x1024.jpg" alt="" width="377" height="502" /></a></p>
<p style="text-align: center;">This historic house of worship is also known as the French Huguenot  Church.  This Reformed church was founded about 1681 by French Huguenot refugees fleeing from religious persecution in France during the Protestant Reformation.</p>
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<p>Here is an additional post written by Jeanne about reading aloud<a href="http://ohpeacefulday.blogspot.com/2009/11/again-with-feeling.html" target="_blank">,</a> called <a href="http://ohpeacefulday.blogspot.com/2009/11/again-with-feeling.html" target="_blank">Again, with feeling </a>posted on her beautiful blog, <a href="http://ohpeacefulday.blogspot.com/2009/11/again-with-feeling.html" target="_blank">A peaceful day.</a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;"><a rel="attachment wp-att-2410" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/charlotte-mason-mondays/charlotte-mason-blog-carnival-a-trip-to-charleston/attachment/fosu_ruins-2/"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2410" title="FOSU_ruins" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/12/FOSU_ruins.jpg" alt="" width="375" height="180" /></a></p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">No visit to Charleston would be complete without mentioning that the Civil War began right in our backyard with Confederate soldiers firing upon Fort Sumter, across Charleston Harbor, on April 12, 1861.  The Federal fort surrendered within a day and a half and would be occupied by Confederate forces for the next four years.</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">We hope you have enjoyed your Trip to Charleston as well as this edition of the Charlotte Mason Blog Carnival!</p>
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		<title>Teaching Our Children the Habit of Thinking</title>
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		<dc:creator>Beth</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love lists and I like that feeling of accomplishment when I complete my list. However, at the end of the day, the quality of what I accomplished always weighs more on me than how much I completed. This definitely applies to our home schooling as well.  As I have established goals for my children [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<div class="socialize-in-content" style="float:left;"></div><p>I love lists and I like that feeling of accomplishment when I complete my list. However, at the end of the day, the quality of what I accomplished always weighs more on me than how much I completed. This definitely applies to our home schooling as well.  As I have established goals for my children over the years, my focus has generally fallen on the following general categories:</p>
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<li><a href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-chara…through-poetry/ "><strong>Character training</strong> </a>– without Christian character, the academics are meaningless</li>
<li><strong>A love for learning</strong> – instilling a desire for increased knowledge and skills even outside of “school”</li>
<li><strong>A habit of thinking</strong> – emphasizing extended and organized thought, whether in or out of the box, no matter what is being studied.</li>
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<p>Examining these categories, I easily connect how Epi Kardia curriculum reinforces character training and helps instill a love for learning. With our emphasis on strong historical characters in the books that we select and the variety of activities, relating to all of the different learning styles, those goals are achievable. What about a habit of thinking? Does our curriculum promote that as well? I hope so! <img src='http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>I randomly chose an <a href="http://www.epikardia.com">Epi Kardia </a>historical unit and grade level from our <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/complete_daily_lesson_plans.html">Daily Lesson Plans</a>, <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/daily_lesson_plans.html">Immigration in 3<sup>rd</sup> grade</a>, and examined the projects associated with that unit. I hope what I discovered can assist you in creating great “thinking” projects for your children!</p>
<p><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0805072209" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /><a rel="attachment wp-att-2436" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-our-children-the-habit-of-thinking/attachment/thinking-1-2/"><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-2436" title="thinking 1" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/thinking-1.gif" alt="" width="101" height="159" /></a>1. <em>A thinking project doesn’t have to be complicated </em>– after reading the book <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0805072209?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0805072209">Liberty Rising: The Story of the Statue of Liberty</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0805072209" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Pegi Shea students are asked to design a statue that they believe represents the United States of America. This type of activity promotes thinking on at least a couple of levels. First of all, a student has to develop some picture of the U.S. in his head. What does it mean to live in the United States? What types of symbols can he develop that represent this country? This requires moving from a known symbol, the Statue of Liberty, to a new idea. The next stage of thinking occurs when the student determines how to design their symbol. Even with a simple sketch, thinking through the design and implementing it is a higher level cognitive skill.<em> </em></p>
<p><em> 2. </em><em>A thinking project can be messy and fun &#8211; </em> following the reading of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060581832?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060581832">On the Banks of Plum Creek (Little House)</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0060581832" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Laura Ingalls Wilder, students create a model dugout. With this project, creating the dugout itself doesn’t require a tremendous amount of thinking. However, mixing up a batch of mud to form the model is definitely messy and fun. The student can add sod, a window and a door to make the project more detailed. The thinking comes into play after the model is designed and you discuss what it must have been like for Laura and her family to live in such an abode. By talking through their experiences and comparing them to how he lives, your child practices his processing and evaluating skills.<em></em></p>
<p><em> 3. </em><em>A thinking project can train children to organize their thoughts </em>– at Epi Kardia, we are great fans of graphic organizers and charts. We greatly appreciate such tools because they allow children to organize their thoughts in a more concrete way. <a rel="attachment wp-att-2437" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-our-children-the-habit-of-thinking/attachment/thinking-2-2/"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-2437" title="Thinking 2" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Thinking-2-150x100.gif" alt="" width="150" height="100" /></a> If we don’t control our thoughts and organize them in some logical way, they only become burdens, often misleading and confusing us. They float around in our head without definition or logic<em>. </em>It’s like cramming a bunch of documents in a file cabinet without sorting them into files. What’s the point? When you need them, they’re just a jumbled mess.  Children who utilize organizational tools starting from an early age develop the habit of organizing the information they’re processing. For example, after reading <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0807502952?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0807502952">Along the Santa Fe Trail: Marion Russell&#8217;s Own Story</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0807502952" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Marion Russell, students are asked to create a list of items they would take if they were heading on a trail out West with a wagon caravan. Now, you could have the student just make a list without any rhyme or reason, or you could suggest that the student organize his list in logical categories. So, first the student needs to determine which categories might be essential such as food and cooking supplies, animals and livestock, clothing, medicines, etc. The student also has to take into account the limited amount of space in the wagon. Assignment limitations often promote thinking skills that are very practical in real life since we all have limits placed on us when we’re trying to problem solve. This type of organizational thinking translates to many other areas of academics and to general life skills as well.<em></em></p>
<p><em><a rel="attachment wp-att-2438" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-our-children-the-habit-of-thinking/attachment/reading-4-2/"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-2438 alignleft" title="Reading 4" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Reading-4-112x150.gif" alt="" width="112" height="150" /></a> 4. </em><em>A thinking activity can promote further questioning and thoughts leading to more thinking! </em> With all of our <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/complete_daily_lesson_plans.html">Daily Lesson Plans</a>, we include comprehension questions for history and science. Our goal with these questions are twofold: firstly, lead the student to focusing on the most important aspects of the book and secondly, require him to think about what he has read. Too often children are asked to read material, but are never required to work through the process of thinking about it and evaluating what they’ve read. For example, questions from the 3<sup>rd</sup> grade Immigration curriculum following the reading of <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1599151723?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=1599151723">Just So Stories, Illustrated Edition (Yesterday&#8217;s Classics)</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=1599151723" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" /> by Rudyard Kipling include:</p>
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<li>Do you think curiosity is a good thing?</li>
<li>Is there a time when it could be negative?</li>
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<p>Note how we start out with a seemingly simple question. The first answer could be a simple “yes” or “no.” If we stopped there, very little thinking or evaluation would take place. However, the second question requires more advanced thinking because it’s an open ended question. This style of question requires thought rather than just regurgitation of facts or a “yes” or “no.”</p>
<p>Another example may be derived from <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0060581832?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0060581832">On the Banks of Plum Creek (Little House)</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0060581832" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />. The questions related to chapters 23-24 are as follows:</p>
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<li> How was the country party different than the town party?</li>
<li> How did Laura’s church compare to your church?</li>
<li> Why did Pa not get new boots?</li>
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<p>The first and second questions require that your child compare and contrast. Comparing and contrasting require higher level thinking skills. Also, note that the third question begins with “why” which usually indicates that deeper thinking is involved to give a complete answer.</p>
<p>There are many other opportunities to train our children to think from puzzles to analogies to problem solving sets. With such a variety of options, we can work on these skills without having to focus on one type of activity or project.</p>
<p><strong>Things We Do That Prevent Our Children From Becoming Thinkers</strong></p>
<p><strong> </strong>While none of us want to consider that we might have habits preventing our children from becoming strong thinkers, we very well may. By looking at our own habits, and reforming some of them, we can promote stronger thinking skills in ourselves and our children.</p>
<p>1. <em><strong>We don’t give our children time to think</strong>. </em> When I was an education intern, I had a teacher who truly loved to teach. I was so <a rel="attachment wp-att-2439" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-our-children-the-habit-of-thinking/attachment/thinking-4-2/"><img class="alignleft size-thumbnail wp-image-2439" title="Thinking 4" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/Thinking-4-100x150.gif" alt="" width="100" height="150" /></a>blessed by the time I spent with her. She had a habit of counting to 30 slowly after she asked a question, whether it was addressed to the entire class or just one student. She explained that adults often do not give children enough time to think through answers and children develop the habit of hesitating, knowing that the adult will eventually give them the answer. Also, in a classroom setting or even with two or three children, the extra time allows for more students to think through a response. If one of your children is really quick and another requires more time to process, that second child often doesn’t get to think through the process and provide an answer. He may very well rely on the quicker child.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TEACHING TIP:</span></strong> If you have a student who really struggles and needs more time, give him the project directions, questions, etc in advance and let him mentally process what you’re requiring before you become involved.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">REFORMING YOUR HABITS</span></strong><strong>: </strong>Provide more time for your child to think through problems and projects by being patient.</p>
<p>2.  <em><strong>We don’t  follow through on projects and activities</strong>. </em>It’s easy to assign a hands-on project or an activity, especially with older children, and walk away. When the project is done, you give a grade or make a comment and move on. With this habit, you’re missing on the most important part of the process…what was discovered or learned. If you don’t discuss the thinking behind the activity or inquire about the thought involved, then you are basically grading your child on his ability to follow directions.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TEACHING TIP:</span></strong><strong> </strong>Before assigning a project or activity, develop a few questions or discussion topics to go along with the assignment. Also, understanding what you expect as outcomes, setting educational objectives, will be an enormous help. This does not have to be complicated or detailed. You can note one or two essential objectives or you could set up a rubric (for more information about rubrics, see the <em><a href="http://www.epikardia.com/secondary_&amp;_manuals.html">Epi Kardia Parents Manual</a>) </em>in a matter of minutes. Rubrics also reveal your expectations for your children, helping them better understand the significance of a project or activity.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">REFORMING YOUR HABITS</span></strong><strong>: </strong> Don’t assign a project or activity without thinking through what you want your child to think about in the process.</p>
<p>3.  <em><strong>We have too low or too high of expectations</strong>. </em>Sometimes we underestimate our children and don’t challenge them enough. At other times, we have enormous expectations that greatly exceed their abilities. If you notice that school bores your child or he is continually flying through his reading, writing and other assignments, it may be that he is just not being challenged. This same child may also be a behavior problem or he may drive you crazy because he has too much time on his hands. He isn’t learning to think because his work is too easy. Other times, we seriously frustrate our children because we expect them to be like us or other people’s children, when we really just need to give them work on their level. Work that is on the correct level for a child requires some measure of challenge without pushing him into frustration.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></strong><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TEACHING TIP:</span></strong><strong> </strong>Pay attention to how your child responds to projects and assignments. Note if there’s a specific type of activity that causes him more difficulty than others. Avoid taking the easy road by making assignments too simple, but pay attention if you find that he is getting seriously frustrated.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;"> </span></strong><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">REFORMING YOUR HABITS</span></strong><strong>: </strong>Take time to regularly communicate with your child about his work. Most children will tell you if something feels impossible to them or if they think it’s just plain boring. There are so many different ways to instill skills, adapting to your child’s level of learning is certainly possible.</p>
<p>4. <em><strong>We get stuck in ruts.</strong> </em>Sometimes we teach our children the way we liked to be taught. For example, comprehension questions really appeal to certain types of people because they simply have to answer them and move on. Some moms love doing hands on projects and they become so involved in the process that they forget the purpose. Using a variety of activities and projects allows your child to think in different ways and situations. If you’re always doing the same type of activity and evaluation, your child will struggle when life throws him a different type of problem to solve.</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">TEACHING TIP:</span></strong> Definitely use your personal gifts when teaching your children, but don’t just rely on those gifts. If you never step out of your comfort zone, how can you expect your child to do so?</p>
<p><strong><span style="text-decoration: underline;">REFORMING YOUR HABITS</span></strong><strong>: </strong>If you have an area that you know is a weakness, such as hands-on projects or maybe you don’t love reading, let your children see you working on them. Discuss how you struggle with these types of assignments, but point out that you’re not ending your education with adulthood. This type of situation is ideal for teaching your child about lifelong learning!</p>
<p>Hopefully, this <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/teaching-our-c…it-of-thinking">blog</a> has given you plenty to think about! I would love to hear how you train your children to think. Maybe you’ve overcome a habit in teaching and we could all benefit from that encouragement!</p>
<p>May God give you a spirit of joy, a compassionate heart and a mind that dwells on His glory!</p>
<p>In Him,</p>
<p>Beth</p>
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The importance of good habits is an often repeated refrain with Charlotte Mason, who believed whole-heartedly that parents were  to instill good habits in their children from early childhood.
 
&#8220;The habits of the child produce the character of the man . . .every day, every hour, the parents are either [...]]]></description>
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<p><em>The importance of good habits is an often repeated refrain with Charlotte Mason, who believed whole-heartedly that parents were  to instill good habits in their children from early childhood.</em></p>
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<blockquote><p>&#8220;<em><a rel="attachment wp-att-2492" href="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/curriculum/charlotte-mason-mondays-using-habits-in-personal-training/attachment/mother-and-child-education-2/"><img class="alignleft  size-medium wp-image-2492" title="Mother and Child - Education" src="http://www.epikardia.com/blog/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/mother-and-child-XSmall-204x300.jpg" alt="" width="254" height="350" /></a></em>The habits of the child produce the character of the man . . .every day, every hour, the parents are either passively or actively forming those habits in their children upon which, more than upon anything else, future character and conduct depend.&#8221;</p></blockquote>
<p><em>First of all, Ms. Mason thought children were to be raised with the idea that they are not their own.  In other words, children, just as their</em></p>
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<p><em> parents, hold their lives in a sacred trust from the Creator.  They were created for God’s purposes, and it is their job to develop  healthy bodies and minds in order to be ready to fulfill that special purpose for which they were created.  In other words, children are to be taught from the beginning that they are </em><em>living under a greater Authority than themselves. What a contrast to the child-centered culture in which we live!</em></p>
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<p><em>One of the many byproducts of good habits is that they make behavior automatic.  If you regularly perform a certain task, such as getting up and immediately making your bed, over and over again, it becomes automatic.  If you get up and do it ten times, you probably still are thinking about it every morning. But if you do it one hundred times, or a thousand times, you do it &#8216;on automatic pilot&#8217;  without thinking about it at all.  It is a simple task that takes absolutely no thought and not much more effort.  However, if it is not a habit, one has to decide every day to do it. Thoughts like this creep in: </em>Do I feel like doing it?  Do I have time to do it?  If I don&#8217;t do it, maybe my mom will do it for me. <em> Or, my personal favorite, </em>I will come back later and do it, I promise.  <em> </em></p>
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<p><em>Carrying one’s own dishes to the kitchen counter, putting away ones’ own clothes, shoes, toys, etc., brushing one’s teeth after eating, feeding a pet, and making a bed can all be accomplished by the youngest of children with loving, consistent training beginning well before they are &#8217;school-aged.&#8217;<br />
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<p><em>Without this training,  we would be constantly struggling with our children and there would be no time left to get anything done, let alone schoolwork, with us fussing and/or following our children around all the time enforcing the completion of these relentless tasks. A harmonious household was Charlotte Mason&#8217;s goal for families, and this can not be the case without constant, reliable training of good habits.<br />
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<h2><span style="color: #d12ece;"><span style="color: #333399;">Charlotte Mason&#8217;s Suggested Physical Habits</span><em><br />
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<li><em><strong>Self-Restraint</strong>:  using one’s time wisely and  productively rather than being lazy or self-indulgent</em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Self-Control</strong>: Staying focused and on task, rather than being upset by minor annoyances.  Cultivating a tolerant, pleasant, patient attitude rather than being quick to whine or complain when conditions aren&#8217;t exactly as we would like them. </em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Self-Discipline</strong>:  Teaching children to be consistently clean, neat and orderly, no matter where they are—at home, at a friend’s or at Grandma’s.</em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Alertness</strong>: Teaching children to actively seek ways to serve others.  Opening doors, carrying something for mother or a younger sibling, completing a task that needs to be done rather than waiting for someone else to do it, or helping Dad with something without being asked are all benefits of teaching your child to be alert. </em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Fortitude</strong>:  Given the right inspiration, most children&#8217;s natural heroic tendencies become activated and can produce an astounding amount of perseverance and tenacity</em>.  <em>Reading about the physical heroism of the Spartans or the knight&#8217;s Code of Chivalry can help promote this idea in your young ones.</em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Service</strong>:  This is another habit that is promoted by delightful examples of selfless service in excellent children&#8217;s literature such as </em><a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00103X4IQ?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=B00103X4IQ">The Box-Car Children. Boxcar. </a>series for younger elementary or <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0140341587?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=epikarhomedu-20&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1789&amp;creative=9325&amp;creativeASIN=0140341587">Amos Fortune, Free Man (Newbery Library, Puffin)</a><img style="border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;" src="http://www.assoc-amazon.com/e/ir?t=epikarhomedu-20&amp;l=as2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0140341587" border="0" alt="" width="1" height="1" />, for older elementary children.</li>
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<li><em><strong>Courage</strong></em>: <em>Again, by <a href="http://www.epikardia.com/" target="_blank">reading fine literature </a>as well as emulating examples around them, children learn courage, as opposed to recklessness.</em></li>
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<li><em><strong>Caution</strong>:  Another word for discernment, Ms. Mason describes caution as preserving our health and ability to serve God and others by acting thoughtfully rather than hastily and possibly harming ourselves or perhaps our siblings or friends.<br />
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<li><em><strong>Purity</strong>: The last of the physical habits, the need for purity is best summed up by  1 Corinthians 6:19:</em> Do you not know that your body is a temple for the Holy Spirit, Whom you have received from God?  <em>Ms. Mason believed that if children are raised with this concept when they are young, they will have a reverence for their body that will be supported by their actions.</em></li>
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<p><em>As parents, we are wise when we realize the value of instilling these habits into our children beginning at an early age.  Our daily, often hour by hour training using inspiring examples from our literature and stories as well as gentle, loving correction will produce children who are ready and able to manage their own bodies and accept the responsibilities laid upon them by their parents as they continue to grow and mature. </em></p>
<blockquote><p>Let us not lose heart in doing good, for in due time we will reap if we  do not<strong><strong> </strong></strong> grow weary.  Galatians 6:9</p></blockquote>
<p>Let us encourage one another in our high calling,</p>
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<p>Next:  Forming Intellectual Habits</p>
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